Ask Grandma Anything: Ex-Boyfriend Phones When Drunk

Hello, Cutie,

It’s 9:30am on a beautiful Tuesday morning and I hope you’re doing wonderful. As for me, well, I just have a question to ask you.

What do you do when your ex-boyfriend only calls you when he’s drunk saying dumb stuff? The only reason I answer is because I still have feelings for him. It’s almost going to be a year that we’ve broke up, and for periods of time I’m fine, but then others I’m not.

I’m only 17 years old and sometimes I think I’m pathetic. Please get back to me, it would be greatly appreciated.

Signed,
Confused

Dear Confused,

The next that he calls when he is drunk, tell him to call you back when he wakes up. And hang up on him.

If he is serious about you, then he needs to show that to you. He’s got to be taught to grow up. If he cannot, then it is his loss.

You know what you want. You don’t need a drunk on the phone.

Don’t settle. There are plenty of young men who would appreciate you and respect your priorities.

Good luck to you.

Love,
Cutie

Hello, Cutie,

It’s 9:30am on a beautiful Tuesday morning and I hope you’re doing wonderful. As for me, well, I just have a question to ask you.

What do you do when your ex-boyfriend only calls you when he’s drunk saying dumb stuff? The only reason I answer is because I still have feelings for him. It’s almost going to be a year that we’ve broke up, and for periods of time I’m fine, but then others I’m not.

I’m only 17 years old and sometimes I think I’m pathetic. Please get back to me, it would be greatly appreciated.

Signed,
Confused

Dear Confused,

The next that he calls when he is drunk, tell him to call you back when he wakes up. And hang up on him.

If he is serious about you, then he needs to show that to you. He’s got to be taught to grow up. If he cannot, then it is his loss.

You know what you want. You don’t need a drunk on the phone.

Don’t settle. There are plenty of young men who would appreciate you and respect your priorities.

Good luck to you.

Love,
Cutie