Dear Cutie,
I was watching the news and I heard about you and I was wondering if you could give me some advice. I am a 24 year old male and I am happily engaged and I love my fiancée very much. But recently I have been chatting with a friend online and there are feelings there that are more than friends. She recently had to move away from her boyfriend because she could not handle the stress living with him and his sister produced. Since she moved in with a friend she and I have spoken almost every day. She tells me she loves me and I love her too. But I also love my fiancée. The woman and her boyfriend have been having issues and she asked me the other day if they broke up, would I move in with her and be with her? I told her I would have to think about it. I love both these women and I am so confused to what I should do. Please give me some advice Thank you so very much.
Signed,
Confused and Torn
Dear Confused and Torn,
You have a fiancée? You might need to break things off. Or take some time to consider who is more important to you. If you can’t make up your mind, you are not ready to get married. Recognize what your priorities are and give yourself six months to think it over. You have time to make this decision. Make it the right one.
Love,
Cutie
Dear Cutie,
I was watching the news and I heard about you and I was wondering if you could give me some advice. I am a 24 year old male and I am happily engaged and I love my fiancée very much. But recently I have been chatting with a friend online and there are feelings there that are more than friends. She recently had to move away from her boyfriend because she could not handle the stress living with him and his sister produced. Since she moved in with a friend she and I have spoken almost every day. She tells me she loves me and I love her too. But I also love my fiancée. The woman and her boyfriend have been having issues and she asked me the other day if they broke up, would I move in with her and be with her? I told her I would have to think about it. I love both these women and I am so confused to what I should do. Please give me some advice Thank you so very much.
Signed,
Confused and Torn
Dear Confused and Torn,
You have a fiancée? You might need to break things off. Or take some time to consider who is more important to you. If you can’t make up your mind, you are not ready to get married. Recognize what your priorities are and give yourself six months to think it over. You have time to make this decision. Make it the right one.
Love,
Cutie