Ask Grandma Anything: Once You Have A Crush, Then What?

Dear Grandma Cutie,

I saw you on YouTube and I had a thought of what I could ask you. I understand that you have a lot of questions to answer, however I need your help nevertheless. Like every young woman, I am developing a crush on a young man. How can I tell him this or express the way I feel in a “normal” way?

Signed,
Nervously Fond

Dear Nervously Fond,

A crush is so exciting! I’m so glad you asked for my advice. 

First of all, there is no such thing as “normal.” But there is natural, and natural may be different for each one of us. Think of how you can show him how you feel in a way that feels right for you. Don’t worry about grand gestures. Real life isn’t like the movies, nor should it be. 

Follow your heart and you won’t go wrong. 

Love,
Cutie

Dear Grandma Cutie,

I saw you on YouTube and I had a thought of what I could ask you. I understand that you have a lot of questions to answer, however I need your help nevertheless. Like every young woman, I am developing a crush on a young man. How can I tell him this or express the way I feel in a “normal” way?

Signed,
Nervously Fond

Dear Nervously Fond,

A crush is so exciting! I’m so glad you asked for my advice. 

First of all, there is no such thing as “normal.” But there is natural, and natural may be different for each one of us. Think of how you can show him how you feel in a way that feels right for you. Don’t worry about grand gestures. Real life isn’t like the movies, nor should it be. 

Follow your heart and you won’t go wrong. 

Love,
Cutie